Thank you so much to those who responded... and i will check out bighip.com
I realize that the free stuff is out there and ive got no problem getting something like that going it's just main concern are blocklists...
A place like constant contact claims:
Note to Constant Contact Users: Constant Contact's average email block rate is 3% compared to the industry average of 22%.
http://www.constantcontact.com/learn...e11-issue4.jsp
That's a pretty high number imo.