Originally Posted by Tempest

Those marriages that have lasted for decade after decade have only done so because both parties were willing to go thru periods where they hated each other, loved each other, possibly cheated on each other and then forgave each other... If you want to be one of the few these days that has that type of a relationship, that type of love, that type of a partner in life, then you have to at least attempt to forgive and work your way thru it... but if you're like most of society these days that doesn't value marriage or relationships then just dump her, find someone else and continue the revolving door.