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Many factors here.. does it destroy the passion in your relationship? Does it negate trust? Could you go on without that person? How "significant" are we talking about? To me it also depends on what comes with forgiving. If I can forgive and forget, then it may be possible for me to bite my tongue and work through the emotions. If it's something I cannot forget I would likely present the boot.. I would rather work on forgetting the person all together than keep them around as a reminder.
When cheating comes into play, I'm out. To me, the moment that happens is the moment she ended the relationship for you. People need to think about true consequence before crossing that line, such a sacrifice.
I don't believe in counseling for relationships.. if it's true love it should work itself out. I'll go with making demands and flipping the bird otherwise.
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