Dont be an idiot people.
there is a huge difference between being forgiving and leaving and being forgiving and staying.
dont listen to half these idiots who are married and most likely have a wife who they met while they were young and both grew fat together.
you always leave a cheater there is never an excuse to cheat EVER, and although you think there is a chance it will go back to being the same it will NEVER. and even if you think it "has" it will always come haunt you again.
YOU LEAVE and then later forgive, you forgive the person because they are human and when you are ready to forgive someone that means you have fully moved on.
never stick around, never try to make it work again. notch it up as an expierience in your life and keep moving onto new and greater expieriences.
people have to start realizing alot of people these days come from seperated homes or grow up with the belief that relationships are not that "big" of a deal and thus to them cheating is OK. they may act sympathetic but that is due to hurting someone they "love" but when it boils down someone who cheats has a 100% different belief system from someone who does not.
there is no fine line in between if you are someone who has a firm belief system set in NO CHEATING then you need to move on because thinking you are going to change the person in the end you are only fooling yourself.
and this goes to no matter how much you "love" the person or how matter much they "love" you, it will and cant ever be the same and you need to man up or woman up and move on.
