Originally Posted by selena

I am pretty sure what SarahLLO and PSSuperstars are trying to say that until Erika/Dixie is with someone from a position of strength that it is going to end up a fucked up situation. Whether she is with you, Gonzo, or anyone else.

When a girl is with someone because she needs to be with them, it's a situation that she will ultimately come to regret and resent. Whether she needs them for a place to live, for drugs, for money, for status, to make her be 'whole', what-the-fuck-ever.

Until she can be on her own, and figure out who she is, she is destined for the same type of stuff. I don't know any of you. You may be the bad guy, she may be the bad guy, or it may be and most likely is a combination of both. But the pattern will continue for her until she is at place in her life where she can make decisions out of choice rather than need.

Trust me on this one. I speak from experience.