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Originally Posted by BVF
I understand the need for the dude to do what he needs to do for his kids....But why do you keep emphasizing that he leave his BUSINESS behind? Are you going to pay his rent and other bills? If not, you have no right to tell him how to make his money....Who are you to tell a man to get a job at Home Depot?....
How about YOU go get a job at Home Depot and give up YOUR livelyhood.....See how stupid that sounds?
After my divorce, my ex-wife moved from Ohio here to Wisconsin.....For a few years, I drove back and forth every month to see my kids and had them during the summer....I was able to live with them in Puerto Rico for a year and now I moved to Wisconsin because the divorce terms stipulate that each parent gets half time if one parents moves closer to the other parent....So now I see my kids every day and my youngest kid is sitting here watching the wiggles while the other kid sleeps in......Could I be doing this working at Home Depot just so that I could get a needed "Reality Check" suggested by someone who doesn't know me? Hell no....
You know what made that possible? Working on porn websites.....All that "convinced he's a baller" is a crock of bullshit and no reason to leave an online business that's making money....that's just plain stupid....
The fact that you said "I can't let it die" before you went on that diatribe shows that you're more interested in flapping your gums than you are in helping the dude....
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Yeah but were you head over heels for one of your drug addicted models? Were you hyper focusing on a "ballin" lifestyle?
I dunno. YOu just seem like a no bullshit hardworker... who'd never get caught up in the rat race of it... and just be working... eyes on the prize kinda deal. And I'm assuming you're mentally sound. You come off that way.
I wasn't saying a man needs to get out of adult to get his kids back... I was saying a man that's hyper focusing on the "I look 25" "she's with a 50 year old now" "look at how I changed her" and all that blahblahblah unhealthy stuff that is being exacerbated by being in this industry..
I wasn't saying to quit porn just to get kids.. I was saying to get out of the lifestyle that's fucking his brain and making him post all this obsessive nonsense.