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Old 05-25-2009, 07:20 PM  
BusterBunny
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Originally Posted by stickyfingerz View Post
Thats not a dig on her, thats me being honestly worried about her. Gonzo and his buddies talk about me sending the cops down to make sure she was ok. Well Gonzo posted on his forum that her parents had her address and phone number. So I called her mother to see if she had heard from her. Her mother didn't even know she was in atlanta, and had been leaving her voice mails for weeks and never heard from her. At that point I was really worried. The last time anyone had heard from her, or that she had been online was the 24th the night before her 21st bday she called me to tell me she was turning 21 and thought that I hadn't wished her happy bday, but I had sent emails, and instant message, and pm's on oprano to her wishing her happy bday. I and no one else heard from her for 10 days, and I was already worried due to her drinking issues, and the fact she gets violent when she drinks. Then with Gonzo being deceptive and lying about her parents being able to reach her I talked to a bunch of my friends and asked their advice. I then called the Georgia Bureau of Investigation. I told them the exact story, not telling any lies, they told me to call The cops in Gonzo's county and have them do a welfare check.

I was the only person on the planet that cared enough about her to make sure she was ok. Call that whatever you want, but I was honestly scared for her safety and had to make sure something really bad didnt happen. She already has punched Gonzo in the face once when she was barely drunk, so who knows if he wouldn't snap on her or do who knows what. Call it an over reaction but when you call someones mom and she is crying, and doesn't know where her daughter even is, and couldn't reach her, you are not left with much alternative beside taking action of some sort to ensure that she is safe. It had nothing to do with getting anyone in trouble with the cops, it was to make sure she was ok. And I told Gonzo she didn't have to call me, she could call her mom, or send an email, just to show she was ok. I think if any of you had someone you cared about and were concerned about their safety you would do the same. Hope she realized I sent them because I am one of the few on this planet that honestly care about her and her safety. Anyways.. ok done venting. She just hooked her buggy to the wrong horse with Gonzo.
if i didnt think it would be wasted i would spend hours on this topic because i do know psych...but ive tried to tell you stuff before and you just blew it off so i won't waste my time...i will say you should just forget her hard as it may be...she is an adult and you are even more of an adult due to your age so act like it...again you may love her but as many have mentioned and you agree you shouldnt...so take their advice and your own intuition and move on...this is all like a bad highschool breakup and you are far past graduated...you may be a caring soul but you are fitting the profile of a narcissist as pp posted...you have responded in kind to their mud slinging and should just drop it...life goes on, and the sooner you realize this the better off you will be...IF your version of events is true, and she comes back needing help it's only to use you...you would be a fool for helping her and deserve whatever pain and monetary damage it inflicts upon you...be an adult and let the other adult be one too...that means making her own decisions be it wright or wrong...if she is indeed being manipulated by someone it is her choice as an adult to let it happen...if she was a real friend as you paint her to be she would have listened to you and this situation would not exist...thus she wasnt a real friend, at your age you should have learned this already...i dont have to know all the details to tell you your relationship was not a healthy one and you are better off without it...
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