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Old 05-25-2009, 07:21 PM  
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Originally Posted by pocketkangaroo View Post
I think you come dangerously close to stalking with what you're saying. Honestly, once you've broken up, it's technically over. Calling the girl's parents, sending cops over to her house, and other things is not right. I don't care how much you care for someone, when they break it off, you shouldn't be doing that kind of stuff. She's an adult too and is ultimately responsible for her own actions. I know it can really suck, but such is life. There are a ton of girls out there.

I guess I also don't see why her new environment is so much worse than her old.
I wouldn't of called if Gonzo hadn't lied about her parents having the address and phone number. I talk to her mother from time to time. Her and I were talking the night before her bday, and a few days before that we were on good terms and weren't fighting, and she was telling me she was scared and was crying. She also apologized for the whole North Carolina thing. We were talking and on good terms and she disappeared. Just because Gonzo didn't know we were talking he keeps playing the stalker card. she was calling or talking to me on Yahoo at least 2 times a week, and never had I not heard from her for longer than 6 days. There were several nights that It looked like I was going to have to make a trip down there to get her out of there. Just because she tells Gonzo one thing doesn't mean shit. She told me after the NC thing that she was sorry and begged my forgiveness and couldn't believe I would still forgive her after what she had done to me, and put me through. She told me she would fix it and she wanted to come home.

Gonzo only gets one side of things. I was the one she was talking to at 2 and 3am in the morning, I was the one she was crying to and telling me she was scared. I was the one she was asking what to do. No one knows the whole truth between me and her except me and her. Gonzo has no idea about the real truth on things. She told me when I came to visit her in NC she had to act the way that she was expected to act due to Gonzo being there. If anyone thinks I am making this stuff up, what motive would I have for that now? Erica cried 2 nights ago to me when we talked even. But hey Im sure all you buddies of Gonzo really know the full story since even he doesn't know it.
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