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Originally Posted by stickyfingerz
A. I paid for the dog, I trained the dog, I potty trained the dog, I cleaned up 90% of its messes, she took off and left that dog. Thats an interesting version of stealing. I did not even want another dog, she did. Now that I have it my dog and the new dog are friends and enjoying each other. She doesn't know how to take care of a pet and I had to do everything.
B. It WAS NOT ME that brought all this out publicly. You act like I wanted to hurt her. I was publicly accused of bullshit, and had private issues brought out publicly. Find me just one place I have ever said a bad word about her. You fuckwads and your love of that loser Gonzo blinds you from the fact that him and her jumped onto this thread in order to try and do damage TO ME. I did not attack them, did not say a word about them. Why would I try and ruin her when I have a solo girl site that that could affect sales? Your logic is the typical flawed logic of the "old schooler". Talk about me being gay. How does that fat scummy fucks cock taste?
So I am attacked without provocation on a board I do business on, in a thread that had no relation to anything that they are doing, and I am trying to hurt her chances of having a site? Jesus fuck you are a twat.
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Sticky, you really need to get away from the boards and the girl for awhile. You're so caught up in this that you're not seeing straight - this response is a perfect example. You didn't actually reply to what the guy said at all, instead you started talking about the dog (which wasn't the actual point of his post at all) and rehashing the same thing, accusing anyone who disagrees with you of also being blinded by Gonzo. That had nothing to do with what the guy actually said to you. I've been noticing you doing that quite a bit throughout the whole thread, actually.
Seriously, I understand that you're hurting, but reading all of this makes me want to grab you, shake you, and FORCE you to take a vacation away from all of this. Trust me, you'll see things clearer if you give yourself a break from this entire mess, because right now it's really obvious that you're too upset to even interpret what people are trying to say to you correctly.
I know this might come off harsh or like I'm calling you stupid, but I'm not. This is a pretty normal thing to happen when you're recovering from what was, at its core, an unhealthy relationship - you're so wrapped up in the drama, feeling like the world will end and wanting to believe anything that will result in things going back to how they were. Everyone's been there, and it just gets amplified tenfold when you put it on GFY.
I know that this is kind of weird for me to post since I've already admitted that you bug me, but I don't like seeing people lose themselves like this.
Bottom line: Sticky, you really need to remove yourself from this entire situation for at least a week or two. Stay off of GFY - don't even lurk. Don't have any communication with Erika or Gonzo or her parents or anyone else close to either of them. Spend time doing things YOU enjoy, with your friends, and I absolutely PROMISE that soon you'll feel the pain begin to fade and you'll begin to see this situation for what it is.
THEN, you can decide with a clear head what your next move should be.
I hope you take my advice.