Originally Posted by Elli

I disagree somewhat. A guy just has to make sure he doesn't let himself go to cupcakes *completely* and he'll still be attractive to the ladies as long as he can make them laugh or have decent conversation (and sexual skills).

Also, the fact is that high maintenance people are drawn to each other. Everybody else gets to choose from what's left. Gym muscle guy will hook up with hair extension girl and everything will be happy.

Now if you're saying a 400lb guy won't get a 130lb pretty girl, then... that's probably accurate in most cases.

Just my 1.89 cents.