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Old 06-25-2009, 08:01 AM  
selena
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If I had time, I would draw you out a flowchart, but it basically boils down to this...

Do you have children with her?

If so, you do have to answer her calls at 3:00 a.m.

But even if you do, that does not mean you are her personal lackey. I assume she's not destitute, given the fact that she fucked you in court. So let her deal with her own shit, unless your hypothetical children are in danger/need, etc.

If you don't have children...

then block her number. There is no need to talk to her ever again.

Of course she doesn't have respect for you. You will drag your 1/2 drunk ass out of bed at 3:00 a.m., disrupt and inconvenience a friend, and make a 90 mile round trip simply because she locked her keys in the car? She said jump, you said how high. That is not respect worthy. Respect worthy would be you telling her NO.

And as a woman, let me assure you that if you ever have even a glimmer of a notion of bedding the 'one that drove' you are killing all chances of it by being your ex wife's bitchboy. That isn't attractive, (unless the friend is a dominatrix, then she might like it).

Dude, tough love here, but man up and grow a set of fuckin' balls.

If you don't, this woman will jack you around for as long as you let her.

You have the power to say no. Just do it.
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