First of all.....How old were you when you lost your virginity?
If you educate your child right he will make the correct decisions for himself. Do you want to be that parent that eventually finds out that your child hides almost everything about himself from you? Or would you rather your son be more open and feel like he can communicate with you? Yes he is still a child and has a lot of growing up to do but he is starting to learn and explore things about life and you should allow him to do so with in limits and maybe express what those are to him first rather than just saying no?
The only reason I believe in this method is because it is the way in which I grew up and learned to respect my mother more for it. I could go on about this topic all day but basically in the end..........there is no right or wrong way of handling such a situation......hes eventually gonna have sex........the only thing is......will he be responsible when he does?
At least he will never come home saying that hes pregnant! LOL
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