First off your name Sarah rocks
I think the logo could be a little stronger and stick out more. I would not have the flash fade to white. makes the site look blank for that duration when they fade. Fade the next pic in slowly and it would look pretty cool. If you do hardcore, show that off. That what's what the surfer wants!What ever you do let the surfer know in as little space as you can. They don't like to read that much. They are looking to be turned on fast. Make your joins stick out a little more. That’s where you want the surfer to look.
Put the Welcome To The Official Site Of Sarah Peachez in the html. Make your flash in ie not have to be clicked to activate. Add an update section as Sebastion said. On your second page, Make the movies start with a scene from the movie, not the warning. Thats a great palce to display yourself, don't waste it with a black boring warning. I would get more of those graphics in the html too. Hit me up if you want a few more pointers. You are super sexy and if the site is doubling sales you are on the right track for sure! This is just me 2 cents