Wow...the response from some of those programs/people in the gay community to Rob's post is pretty shocking. It was a simple joke thread and of the many gay/lesbians I know, especially in adult, not a single one would take any offense to it
That said, to those who wouldn't do business with another company based on a simple post like this; I'd be willing to wager you aren't a very good businessperson. Whether you do or do not do business with them should be based on the product; maybe you don't think it's a good fit, maybe you do.
If I was an owner of a gay site thinking about dealing with another company such as XOD and found out my employee nixed a deal worth $xx,xxx a month for example over this thread, that employee would be fired on the spot