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Originally Posted by Libertine
Just about all relationships end because one of the people involved isn't interested anymore. Usually, the other person still is. Chances are that at least for that person, some of those feelings are still there.
In those friendships with your exes, either you or they are likely to still have some feelings that go beyond friendship. Plus, judging from the fact that you were in a relationship together, chances are that you find each other at least somewhat attractive.
So what you're telling new girls is this: you're friends with women you find attractive, who also find you attractive, and either you or those women are likely to still have some feelings that go beyond mere friendship.
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Exactly!
I had a girlfriend in college who insisted she was "just friends" with her ex boyfriend. I told her that the only reason he still called her was that he wanted to get back with her. She said I was crazy.
Fast forward a few years after the relationship ended. I see the guy out in public. We chat for a few. He admits that the only reason he still talked to her back then was because he wanted to get back together with her. No shit!
