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Originally Posted by Pleasurepays
my best friends brother had a girlfriend that was doing that to her kid. she fed him whatever he wanted.. of course, shitty food usually causes you to crave shitty food and he was well over 150 pounds at about 8 or 9 years old. it was horrible. she wouldn't listen to anyone and always had an excuse.
sometimes women tend to use kids to make themselves feel better and fill the holes they have inside themselves and put the welfare of the child and the notion of being a great parent behind these sort of destructive behaviors.  |
That's exactly it - it was the mother with the real problem...and was transferring it to the daughter. There was always a littany of excuses, but usually it revolved around how *she* was treated as a kid.
I put up with it for a year and a half, then got out of the relationship (it wasn't the sole reason).