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Originally Posted by DonovanTrent
I never said anything about SETTLING for someone who doesn't make you happy. I was talking about passing up people who COULD make you happy, because you're on the search for that ONE perfect person who instinctively understands everything about you and feels the same about everything etc., who, in reality, doesn't exist, and if they did, it would be the most boring relationship you could ever imagine.
I agree 100% on your last paragraph, though. Too many people aren't independent enough to go it alone and see what comes along. I know plenty of people who are happier with people they met serendipitously than those who met people they were desperately on the hunt for.
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Sorry, I didn't mean to sound like that's what you were implying, I didn't think that.
I agree. Relationships are a two way street. If someone's expectationsare set too high and they expect to make something work w/o working on it then yes, that is a recipe for disaster as well.