we are nothing but 1/2 retarded baboons doing what we are genetically programmed to do... find food, find shelter, find a mate, fuck and have babies. we have a lot of ways of rationalizing and explaining these simple innate driving forces inside us... and a lot of ways to make ourselves feel secure in the relationship by coming up with concepts like "we were meant to be together"
what is "love"?
love as a noun, is simply the fulfillment of personal selfish emotional needs. nothing more. it might include the need to be abused emotionally or physically. it might include the need to find a co-dependent drug addict so both of you support each others drug habits or whatever.
love as a verb.. i.e. "to love someone" is nothing more than the emotional manipulation of another. you behave in a certain way and do certain things, hoping those actions and behaviors will be reciprocated and the cycle can continue. its nothing more than that.
we are all the best liars we know... and all this is one of our greatest lies.
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