btw... i'm not anthropologist... but what is the purpose of a HUGE wedding with all family and friends there?
why is it SOOOOO important to a female?
Simple...
its a simple matter of going on record in front of everyone thats important in your life that you're going to fulfill a certain promise... which of course greatly increases the odds of you doing that. its like announcing that you're going to lose 20 pounds to as many people as possible for example. you do that crap to put more pressure on yourself to go through with it. same principles at work here.
a guy DOESN'T want that because he's programmed to fuck all the women he can
a women DOES want that because she's programmed to fuck only one guy
a guy is immediately thinking about the fact that he'll be expected to be with only one girl for the rest of his life. a woman is thinking "he's mine", "i made him mine" etc.
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