"Soulmate" is probably one of the most mis-used and also over-used terms in the world right now. With a lot of girls I've spoken to over the years it seems every other guy they hook up with is their "soulmate", for approximately 2-5 weeks until they break up and go looking for their next so-called "soulmate". They think a soulmate is someone who thinks like they do and who likes all the same things they like. "Oh you like Cradle of Filth? I LOVE Cradle of Filth, we must be soulmates!" Yeeah.
But do I believe in the concept in it's proper usage? Sure, why not. But as to the notion that there is only one for each of us? Utter hogwash.
Most people need to clear their mind of all this soulmate crap and just look for someone they like and are attracted to who ends up liking them back and let nature take it's course. Why? Because sometimes you can be with the same person for many years until it hits you square in the face -- that you ARE with the closest thing to a soulmate you'll ever have, want or need.
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