I have been very happily married for 14 years now but I do have sexual encounters with other women. My wife is very aware of what I do as an adult webmaster (as well as an adult video performer) but she sure doesn't seem to mind the weekly paychecks that arriive in our mailbox as a result of me participating in the activities that I am involved in...but I am sure that she would rather me not do it.
However, the adult industry is my life (as well as who I am as an individual) so I will never stop working in the industry.
As far as your particular situation, how do you feel about the person? I definately feel that it is possible for two individuals to be together without ever cheating on one another. Depends on various factors though.
Have you ever spoken with her regarding the situation? May be a good time to sit down and discuss everything before getting too involved.
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