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Originally Posted by UniqueD
I've never understood how this could work. Wont she always have a little resentment since she dislikes your job?
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Well I must admit that its not been an easy road at times. We have "rules and guidelines" that I must follow for her to be ok with it. Its not really a matter of her "allowing" me to do it, but more so her being able to stomach the fact that im in the adult industry. Its hard for her to think its a real business and not a bunch of nasty perverts. Although there are many perverts, the serious people are all business which includes myself.
For example im not in teen niche, I dont work in any niches that are abusive or seriously degrading, I dont leave things up on my computer screen for her too see, etc.
Its gotten easier the last couple years as we both grow up and she matures further, she understands more now that making money is very important and that it sure beats the 9 to 5 struggle that most everybody has to deal with. Another thing is oviously that I cant ever even think about shooting content, or even going to webmaster shows, but I dont have a whole lot of interest in that anyway. Zero as far as shooting goes. Im just here for the business, I could care less about the actual porn. Which I think she finally really does understand.
So anyway, maybe it makes a little more sense now how it works out.
