well, their unhappiness is a big consideration. but you have to think about why they are asking, and it most likely is a problem. either you drink too much and or the relationship is worse because of your drinking. either you are out without her, or don't treat her the same etc.
my drinking past isn't really important to detail here i think. but suffice it to say, you can quit and be quite happy. it may take years to reach that point, but its a good thing all in all.
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