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Originally Posted by CynBabes
I grew up in an old school hardcore JW family (My step dad's mom was even one of their "144,000") and I've never heard that term used by them, not to say they don't use it, I've just never heard it.
As far as I remember (it's been 20+ years) the only people who were excommunicated where ones who broke serious JW rules, most of the ones I remember leaving the religion on their own (my mom and stepdad for example) were hounded even more and more often by them to come back.
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With respect, I was told to use this approach by a former witness... IT WORKS.
Referenced by a quick google search (Just to make sure I am not misinformed myself)
http://www.towerwatch.com/Witnesses/...owshipping.htm
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One of the characteristics of a destructive religion is an enforced policy that requires the members to shun anyone who leaves or gets expelled from the religion. It is a common trait among esoteric movements that claim to be "the Truth." Members are required to sever association with even their own family members and relatives who leave.
The consequences of this harsh doctrinal policy are extreme, shattering family relationships and leaving the victims emotionally and spiritually devastated. Suicides or attempted suicides are not uncommon.
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And also:
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"Do you shun former members?" The answer should have been "Yes." When you are disfellowshipped or disassociated, family ties are severed for life till you decide to go through the steps to return to this religion.
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From
http://www.jwfiles.com/wtbts.htm