Not sure where you are located but you may have better luck first finding someone in your area that you can meet with in person so that you could get more accomplished than trying to do everything remote online.
Of course if you do find someone near you then you can always come back here to GFY for personal references or check out Xbiz.net to see if they are registered.
Someone that appears to be as serious as you are should also register at Xbiz.net if you have not already done so and then you can post what you are looking for there too. One thing nice about that site is that they have only members that are in the adult industry along with people like yourself that are looking for opportunities.
Hope this helps a little
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