Originally Posted by SleazyDream

i never agreed with any of them.

I've always said

believe 10% of what you read/hear about people

i don't care about someone else's dealing with a person - but I listen in case I might find anything I can use or watch out for in my dealings with that person in the future.

And for some reason I've always believed
if someone feels the need to tell you they are honest - they arn't
if someone feels the need to tell you they are smart - they arn't
if someone feels the need to tell you they are a good person - they arn't