Hi Mark I totally understand your feeling. In 1998 I was one of the first in Montreal producing live show on the internet (I said in Montreal for thoses who will come with their 1992 lol). And once a TV network came to my office do a report and it was broadcasted at the news of 17h and 22h ans she was watching that channel all time (TQS now V). So we were all at home and at 16h50 I announced her the whole thing.
After that everything changed and she come up with almost all the story your people told you and 6 month after I had to move out cause I couldnt handle it anymore. I stopped everything in 2005 I think, it's took her 2 year to believe that I stopped. Now I'm distributing sex toys and no way that I'll tell her that. I'm actually working on some site that will require me to produce some contents etc and now I dont know how I will handle this because if I tell her she gonna probably tell me that I lied to her 4 year ago. I guess I'll cros the bridge when I get there...
But the point is that if we are in this industry it's because we like it and there's no point to change for the others.