Blur consoles should be used to offer your surfer an alternative to the site you are trying to sell them but were unable to as they are leaving your site.
For example, lets say you are pushing a gay twink site, after the surfer has left your site without buying, the blur console (or normal console that you pop) should have several other gay niches listed, bears, latin, mature, jocks, hardcore, etc, basically give your surfer another alternative and do not send that traffic directly to a sponsors tour page, it simply wont work, like that (popping a tour on the console, instead of offering up an option) the best thing you can do, when you pop the console is to give your surfer choices so they get to sites that you own, whether they be your own tgp, hub sites, directory or link lists... Then start the selling all over again for a different niche/site.
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