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Originally Posted by Fletch XXX
for record i only read first post then posted, sorry about murder but you really shouldnt make contact with the parents, they can and SHOULd get restraining order against you if you do, i know I sure asd fuck would, this is scary personality here... sounds like you simply want to inflict emotional harrassment upon them.
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there is no restraining order in canada.
I had a guy make several death threats to me - called the police on him and he admitted making death threats to me to a police officer - there is a police incident report documenting this.
we have two things here - a protection order and a peace bond. the protection oder is much stronger.
so I set a hearing with a judge for a protection order.
(why do i want this? wasn't scared but if the fucker came for me and I had to kill him in self defense no jury in the world would convict me with a protection order - and i wouldnt' even be arrested i'd be released immediatly so long as it was clear he came for me and I killed him - without that it can be looked at as a fight with equal responsibility - it also allows me to take leathal force in response if he comes near me as I then have legitimate reason to fear for my life and he's not legally allowed to come near me)
so anyway - first time the judge said I needed witnesses PLUS the police report? WTF - so i rescheduled and went back with 3 witnesses. This time the judge said it looks warrented but he has a history of showing up for court so he wouldnt' issue as the judge felt he had the right to defend his side so told me i had ot get a peace bond. That takes a month - so i asked the judge what do i do for a month - he just shrugged his shoulders.
So i register for the peace bond - it HAS to be served by the courts sherifs - anyway the guy moved and changed his phone number so I had no way of contacting him. He was still hurrassing me though. The sherif tried a few times to reach him - and wasn't able to find him. This is where it gets fucked up - in the mean time i had a small claims case against him (which i won) and I told the sherif's office he would be at court that day - EASY to server - they wouldn't do that.!!!!!!!!!!! - anyway i went back down the filing office to ask what i can do to serve this guy - and she told me and I quote "well if they can't find him that's a good thing as he's gone" - I screamed in the office at her - security came by but let me rant as they even thought it was bullshit. He can find me but the courts won't issue a protection order when there's a police record of death threats cause he has a history of showing up for court but the sheriff can't find him so they can't serve him so I can't get a court case and I can't serve him on my own with a private service for a protection order, yet he can and still does continue to threaten me.
anyway I documented the times i applied for a protection order and peace bond so if something ever does happen any jury will know I tried everything to get these in place.
so yeah - canada doesn't have restraining orders anymore - we have protection orders and peace bonds but unless you're a female you're pretty much not going to get them