So if he's not even 16, chances are he's living at home. Shouldn't the arrest records, police reports, anything - have his address on them? Get a copy of the police report.
If it was due to traffic accident (sounded like it due to the GTA reference) then go to his state / county's public records website. Most of them list traffic tickets / court docs etc - it's all public record. If that's not enough, take his last name/address, go to the Property Appraiser's site for the county and look it up - it will have their names there. Also try marriage records etc.
I wouldn't be opposed to sending a picture of your dad from time to time... but first you might want to try opening a civil case for damages and hit them where it hurts.
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