Originally Posted by TidalWave

Its not a big deal, why would it even happen to slip out? Tell them you do sell ladies purses on the internet and even setup a fake website for it and that is only if they ask.
Make sure your computer requires a password to login, and always make sure you lock it when you step out for any reason. This all may sound like its some big scary thing, but really its pretty simple and easy.

To be extra cool just run a VPN tunnel to your dedicated servers. This will allow all your traffic to flow freely and encrypted. The only traffic they will see on your home ISP is encrypted traffic back and forth from your dedicated servers. Your dedicated server is the one then connecting to all the sites you are visiting.

How much income are you going there with? How do you plan to live and did you decide on a city yet?