There's nothing wrong with getting in shape and staying fit and healthy.
A long time ago I read a magazine article about this and they asked both sides, men and women, a question.
Men- What do you think women find most attractive in men?
Women- What do you find most attractive in men?
After looking at both sides and comparing answers it was very clear that men don't really know what women find attractive.
The # 1 answer from the men was: Women find muscles most attractive.
The # 1 answer from the women was: We like a guy's butt. #2 was nice eyes.
Reading the article taught me the lesson that what I think someone might like may really be far from it and if I wanted to get them what they want I should ask them what that is and not just assume. That way I'm always on target and not going down the wrong path.
So if you asked a large number of women what they find most attractive in men I'm pretty sure muscles will be around the middle of the list and below just being fit.
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