Are you looking for someone to run your affiliate program or to run your adult website? If it's the AP then yes, you have to find the 'right' person and it may prove difficult. BUT if you're talking about your adult paysite then finding someone in the Phillipines or India who can do the 'grunt work' (updating, posting, etc) would be fairly easy, and cheap ($150 a week, maybe less).
But all in all, if I were in your position I would go for the printing opportunity now, and see how it goes 6-12 months from now, putting minimal attention to your adult biz; the adult portion of your life will 'coast' to a certain degree, at least a little, and shouldn't die completely or fade away completely in 6-12 months (and, if it did, could be 'revived') but a brick-and-mortor operation like you described is the bigger task, and well worth investing in. UNLESS, as I said, 6-12 months from now you take a look at your bottom line and, if not happy with it, could make some decisions then.
My two cents. Great good luck! On some levels, these are 'good' problems to have!
