Originally Posted by Choker

Here we go, they are not signed up until they confirm. This is the same as having a link in my free dating sites to other dating sites except it makes it faster for them to make a profile when and if they do confirm and accept this account at the dating site I API to. For every 1000 members I api to other dating sites 250 actually confirm, so this tells me I am providing something my members want. When someone joins a dating site they don't just join one dating site, they join at least 2 or 3. Common sense it improves your chances of finding someone. I have gotten 10 times more complaints from webmasters about what I do than members of my free dating sites. In fact I have gotten only 5 complaints from members of my free dating sites about being API ed to other dating sites. When and if my members start complaining about this then I will re examine my business model. Not because some webmasters don't agree with what I'm doing.