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Old 12-26-2009, 10:36 AM  
spazlabz
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Not really... our swinger club has 36,000 members.

Yes... I let my wife "bang" other guys. The honest truth is... that most guys that are insecure about that are insecure about alot of things. I have learned that you don't own your wife or girlfriend and they will be with you as long as they want to and no longer. My job is to be a great husband and father, foremost, and my wife and I enjoy our sex life together much like we enjoy vacations together or anything else that we experience together. Our relationship is based on trust, communication and love rather than sex. I don't expect you to understand though. ;)

sex is fun, in my opinion cheating is lying and hiding. I do not lie to my wife even when I really REALLY want to. To us sex is way down the list of important concerns. Trust is the top.

we celebrated our 22 wedding anniversary on Dec 11 2009 so its working for us and we are very much in love with each other


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