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Originally Posted by nation-x
Not really... our swinger club has 36,000 members. 
Yes... I let my wife "bang" other guys. The honest truth is... that most guys that are insecure about that are insecure about alot of things. I have learned that you don't own your wife or girlfriend and they will be with you as long as they want to and no longer. My job is to be a great husband and father, foremost, and my wife and I enjoy our sex life together much like we enjoy vacations together or anything else that we experience together. Our relationship is based on trust, communication and love rather than sex. I don't expect you to understand though. ;) |
most people never get to into the swinger thing until later in life. i don't know if its boredom or maturity hell yeah, i am insecure. anyone who is actually willing to be honest with themselves has to admit it. trusting someone leaves you vunerable. anyone at anytime can violate that trust and you may never know it. its a hard thing and definitely not black and white like you want to think.