Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

most people never get to into the swinger thing until later in life. i don't know if its boredom or maturity hell yeah, i am insecure. anyone who is actually willing to be honest with themselves has to admit it. trusting someone leaves you vunerable. anyone at anytime can violate that trust and you may never know it. its a hard thing and definitely not black and white like you want to think.