we just launched
www.paddedkink.com - it's BBW BDSM, which might be a nice twist for your BBW traffic.
We have a few hosted FLV embeds currently but if you hit me up with your needs I can get you pretty much whatever you need in this department. Our RSS feeds are fed by our galleries and come with thumbs and a short description, but I think we can make this better for your needs as well.
Fan signs, I can most certainly get the BBW starlett Kelly shibari (AVN december centerfold) to do a fansign for you
hit me up anytime!
icq: 432861972
email: simon [at] spiceash dot com