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Originally Posted by kronic
Tell her you WERE able to get off work and want to go with her. If she gets excited, she's good to go alone. If she's at all reticent, be wary.
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Her "intentions" going are most likely good. She should be happy if he is going. But that's not the problem, its the reality of what will happen will she is there that she doesn't realize and how well she will hold up to the temptions.
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Originally Posted by Twisted Dave
I genuinely feel uncomfortable knowing some people don't trust their partners. I don't have that problem. I think trust is usually associated with insecurity.
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sounds like you are the one stuck in 1955. How can you feel uncomfortable knowing some people don't trust their partners when the vast majority of partners (one or both) have cheated. It's a fact. More have cheated than have not. There is good reason for most people to have at least a little trust issue with the other person. Maybe not to the point where they need to bug the phone, and have a PI follow them around, but to not trust your spouse in a very tempting situation is normal considering MOST people cheat for a lot less reasons.