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Old 01-17-2010, 02:01 PM  
BlackCrayon
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Originally Posted by Twisted Dave View Post
LOL! Well ... I am going to have to still shy away from this discussion because for one, I don't compare my relationship to that of one with a dog ... and for another, I genuinely feel uncomfortable knowing some people don't trust their partners. I don't have that problem. I think trust is usually associated with insecurity. And it doesn't always have to have come from somewhere either.

Anyways, some interesting points for sure man
EVERYONE has insecurities. I've said this before and I'll say it again everyone can feel insecure and vunerable regardless of the level of trust in the relationship. If you are really honest with yourself you have to admit you are human and can be succeptable to jealousy and insecurity from time to time. The only way to feel 100% secure in a relationship is if you don't care. If it ends tomorrow or 40 years from now, it wouldn't matter. I for one trust my girlfriend a lot but I also know she is human, has the ability to break that trust at any time, as do I. I also value our life together and would be sad if she or I did something that would end the relationship. The idea of the bulletproof totally secure man is total shit. Just people lying to themselves.
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