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Originally Posted by BlackCrayon
EVERYONE has insecurities. I've said this before and I'll say it again everyone can feel insecure and vunerable regardless of the level of trust in the relationship. If you are really honest with yourself you have to admit you are human and can be succeptable to jealousy and insecurity from time to time. The only way to feel 100% secure in a relationship is if you don't care. If it ends tomorrow or 40 years from now, it wouldn't matter. I for one trust my girlfriend a lot but I also know she is human, has the ability to break that trust at any time, as do I. I also value our life together and would be sad if she or I did something that would end the relationship. The idea of the bulletproof totally secure man is total shit. Just people lying to themselves.
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now that is an intelligent response, not what baddog or twisted dave is spouting.
First of all these guys who think you shouldn't have to worry about someone cheating... well its obvious they must have never cheated themselves. They must be in long term relationships, for years and have had temption thrown at them left and right, pussy fall in their lap and they turned it down every time. That is the only way they could be soo sure someone wouldn't cheat because they would have had to at least know they wouldn't do it, under the worst (most tempting) circumstances.