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Originally Posted by Amputate Your Head
I don't have a lot of experience with this, so I'm asking for some feedback.....
How do you deal with immediate family loss? Get drunk and rage against the neighbors? Crash your car? Set something on fire? Quietly suffer?
I don't even know what to feel.... I feel lots of things right now. Anger, sorrow, emptiness....
wtf?
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Depends, my grandmother passed away last wednesday at 85 years old.. It was very hard, but at the same time, now I know she is in peace with my Grandfather. She was sick for a very long time.
Now if its a parent, sibling, etc. I think it is A LOT harder and can only imagine.
Definitely do not rage, go on a alcohol / crack spree, that will get you absolutely no where for something that was totally out of your control.
In my opinion, stay close and grieve with your family, making it easier for them will help make it easier for you. It is a process, but you will get through it, stay strong.
Sorry about your loss.