Originally Posted by PR_Tom

I thought I'd check my settings and post some that seem relevant.

Under Options, Privacy tab I have checked the following under Spam Control:

Ask me before accepting messages from people I dont know.
Enable ICQ Anti-spam to filter-out spam messages.


I'm not limited to accepting only messages from people on my list, but under Notifications I do have it set to:

Notify me if someone who is not on my list messages me.