Originally Posted by CheeseHead Nacho Burger

Different things are important / attractive to different people. One of the hot buttons for men includes looks. For women, security.

So... saying something like what you did is almost like saying, "If she wasn't so beautiful he wouldn't give her a second look." Um... well... duh!

I'm sure she's genuinely into him. Biologically, she's attracted to a man who can provide security.