Originally Posted by Huggles

I'd hate the idea that a woman would find me attractive because I'm "Secure".

That would mean the moment you show that you could have a hint of insecurity, she could panic and leave, or take half your shit.

I'd rather have a woman attracted to me because of my values and character, then looks, then money and security.

Golddiggers are the female version of a guy who dates a chick only because she's hot.