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now about your plan, 3 years ago was a good time to get out. the biggest problem these days is traffic because most of it is garbage or wont convert. 2nd biggest problem is finding sites that will convert well enough to make decent money.
there are a million adult blogs on the web now - not the story of 3 years ago (or when u started your old blog).
since you don't have access to that old traffic u will have to start from scratch building traffic and it is 1.000 times harder now. especially for a blog.
bottom line: blogs are dead. tubes are good for traffic but they dont make any money. however if u can make a great video site and find a way to earn money in this economy then u will not waste your time.
keep in mind some of the biggest and smallest adult companies have been bankrupted over the last year. porn sales are down. the world is ending. but good luck!