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Originally Posted by xxweekxx
thanks for the mean wake up call will..im gonna get my money back
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no problem sometimes the most honest answers are the ones we don't want to hear and we don't like hearing.
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Originally Posted by xxweekxx
truth is ive spent so much money on family.. if i had to put an estimate its at least 100k in the past 3-4yrs.. i remember this cousin who was like a bro to me, he kept borrowing $1k from me like every week , he would come up with reasons and id feel bad and loan him the money.. mofo owes me at least $50k now.. i wrote all that off..
as for money ive been careful with it.. i dont splurge on expensive crap like watches, etc.. ive been saving like a mad man, but then i dont know why i made a rookie mistake of giving this girl money.. u r right she prolly knows im too nice to her to even ask her for it back, so im gonna change all that and ask for my money back.. fuck the friendship i know way too many girls here its cool if i lose one..
$10k is a lot of money to just write off.. ive written off tons of $500-1,000 loans, but never $10k.. fuck that..
my only fucking weakness..family/friends in need..how do u guys say fuck off to them
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You are making no sense. You said you loaned a cousin over 50K over time that he still owes you and you could write that off but you can't let go a 10K loan? What matters more, the amount of time the money was let go over or the total owed. So what you gave the cousin 1K a week and it totalled up to 50K. Hell that is worse than this 10K loan. Not because it is 40K more but because he time after time never paid you back and you kept giving him more each week.
Well in your case, tell them they still owe you money from last time so you can't give them more. Or if you live modest like you say you do then how in the fuck do they know how much money you have in the bank. Tell them your business doesn't do as good now and you simply don't have it, sorry.
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Originally Posted by Dvae
I'm saying for the future.
Did you by any chance get an IOU from your friend?
Second question. Any idea what she actually did with the money?
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She is spending it on her Vegas trip in a couple weeks LOL.