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ShellyCrash · 06-22-2010, 06:58 AM

I had a white friend who used to almost exclusively bang black guys. About 5 or 6 years ago while she was living in another state a black guy she hooked up with took her home and locked her up in his basement. She never really gave me all the details, but he kept her down there for a while - over a week - and did bad things to her.

We kept in touch online and I was super excited to see my old highschool friend when she moved back to FL. We started hanging out in person and that was when I discovered she had become a racist. I felt bad for her because I knew where it had come from, and even though the hatred seemed to run deep I thought it would fade as time passed. Prior to all this she had been a 2-Tone Anti Racist Action Rude Girl. I felt like over time she might come back around. I felt that I couldn't abandon my friend.

I listened to her, we talked, I tried to plant seeds of tolerance where I could.

She got knocked up and had a kid, we were all out at dinner one night and she decided to tell what she considered to be a funny anticdote about how she taught her son when he watches TV to point and says the N word if a black person comes on.

At this point I knew she was lost. She wasn't coming back around and worse she had started to damage her child. This is something I cannot abide. I abandoned my friend.

I guess what really chaps my ass is that she hasn't changed her MO of going home with random dudes, they're just all random white dudes now. I don't think this happened to her because she hooked up with a black guy, I think it happened because she hooked up with someone she didn't know and took no precaution to feel the guy out or let anyone else know where she was going or who she was with. There was no digital or paper trail, when she went missing she was just gone. A sad story but one I thought I would share because I think it exemplifies how children change the game a little when discussing the issue of racism.

06-22-2010, 06:58 AM
ShellyCrash Confirmed User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Tampa Bay, FL Posts: 6,708	I had a white friend who used to almost exclusively bang black guys. About 5 or 6 years ago while she was living in another state a black guy she hooked up with took her home and locked her up in his basement. She never really gave me all the details, but he kept her down there for a while - over a week - and did bad things to her. We kept in touch online and I was super excited to see my old highschool friend when she moved back to FL. We started hanging out in person and that was when I discovered she had become a racist. I felt bad for her because I knew where it had come from, and even though the hatred seemed to run deep I thought it would fade as time passed. Prior to all this she had been a 2-Tone Anti Racist Action Rude Girl. I felt like over time she might come back around. I felt that I couldn't abandon my friend. I listened to her, we talked, I tried to plant seeds of tolerance where I could. She got knocked up and had a kid, we were all out at dinner one night and she decided to tell what she considered to be a funny anticdote about how she taught her son when he watches TV to point and says the N word if a black person comes on. At this point I knew she was lost. She wasn't coming back around and worse she had started to damage her child. This is something I cannot abide. I abandoned my friend. I guess what really chaps my ass is that she hasn't changed her MO of going home with random dudes, they're just all random white dudes now. I don't think this happened to her because she hooked up with a black guy, I think it happened because she hooked up with someone she didn't know and took no precaution to feel the guy out or let anyone else know where she was going or who she was with. There was no digital or paper trail, when she went missing she was just gone. A sad story but one I thought I would share because I think it exemplifies how children change the game a little when discussing the issue of racism. __________________ Start making money with the hottest hookup site! up to $55 PPS or up to 75% Revshare ICQ 196766477