Just to clarify on this..
I want you to link to me. I will not link back, but instead I will add a post to my site just like all the others but with your ref code instead of mine. It will be there forever,
and you can link directly to the post page and not my index. I can even make it 2 or 3 posts if you have a popular site or more than one. I'll work with you if you have special requests. I'm also building two more hand written sites I could link back to you from. (launching sometime this week)
Here is a sample post
Shy Love Fucks in Lingerie and Leather Boots