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CDSmith · 07-08-2010, 08:09 AM

Over the years I've been with several women who had some kind of sexual hangup.

A few that couldn't come and had never had the big O in their life (and likely never would) -- some guys think this is a sign that they themselves are a failure for not finding a way to make her cum when the fact is some women have a real problem.

One or two that had a "no blowjob" policy. -- Some women simply get turned off at the idea of going down on any guy.

Several that refused to do anal, had never done it and would never do it.

One that insisted on being undressed by me EVERY time before having sex, like a ritual.

Actually the one that insisted on being undressed also had a no BJ policy AND had never had an orgasm...I didn't even bother trying to put the anal to her. One would assume her to be quite uptight, which she was in those specific ways, but she was also incredibly hot, exotic-looking, and otherwise quite enjoyable in bed. But in the end all that coupled with endlessly having to take her clothes off every time, well, I moved on to a girl who knew how to unbutton her own shirt and was enthusiastic about at least some of the other things.

So, where do you draw the line? You get a new girlfriend and later find out she has some sort of hangup about sex... have you or would you cut a girl loose for it?

Personally I have to draw the line at the no blowjob thing. The anal I can live without, it's a nice perk but if it isn't there I don't obsess over it. But it's sure nice to get a hummer from your woman once in a while. Makes a guy feel appreciated. :D

I'm not crazy about women who absolutely can't cum either. Many of them have become miserable over the years, and when YOU cum they feel resentment and feel cheated. I'd be willing to put in the time nowadays, but in my younger days it was simply too much work to try and try and try to make her tip over the edge. Fun for a while but it eventually takes over everything and becomes a chore and eventually sheer drudgery if no success. Thankfully out of all the girlfriends I've had over the course of the last 25 yeras I'd say only a handful have had these types of hangups.

So what's your story with women and sex hangups?

Or maybe YOU'RE the one with the hangup? Discuss...

07-08-2010, 08:09 AM
CDSmith Too lazy to set a custom title Industry Role: Join Date: May 2001 Location: My network is hosted at TECHIEMEDIA.net ...Wait, you meant where am I located at? Oh... okay, I'm in Winnipeg, Canada. Oops. :) Posts: 51,460	Women with sexual hangups (no BJ, no anal, etc) -- where do you draw the line? Over the years I've been with several women who had some kind of sexual hangup. A few that couldn't come and had never had the big O in their life (and likely never would) -- some guys think this is a sign that they themselves are a failure for not finding a way to make her cum when the fact is some women have a real problem. One or two that had a "no blowjob" policy. -- Some women simply get turned off at the idea of going down on any guy. Several that refused to do anal, had never done it and would never do it. One that insisted on being undressed by me EVERY time before having sex, like a ritual. Actually the one that insisted on being undressed also had a no BJ policy AND had never had an orgasm...I didn't even bother trying to put the anal to her. One would assume her to be quite uptight, which she was in those specific ways, but she was also incredibly hot, exotic-looking, and otherwise quite enjoyable in bed. But in the end all that coupled with endlessly having to take her clothes off every time, well, I moved on to a girl who knew how to unbutton her own shirt and was enthusiastic about at least some of the other things. So, where do you draw the line? You get a new girlfriend and later find out she has some sort of hangup about sex... have you or would you cut a girl loose for it? Personally I have to draw the line at the no blowjob thing. The anal I can live without, it's a nice perk but if it isn't there I don't obsess over it. But it's sure nice to get a hummer from your woman once in a while. Makes a guy feel appreciated. :D I'm not crazy about women who absolutely can't cum either. Many of them have become miserable over the years, and when YOU cum they feel resentment and feel cheated. I'd be willing to put in the time nowadays, but in my younger days it was simply too much work to try and try and try to make her tip over the edge. Fun for a while but it eventually takes over everything and becomes a chore and eventually sheer drudgery if no success. Thankfully out of all the girlfriends I've had over the course of the last 25 yeras I'd say only a handful have had these types of hangups. So what's your story with women and sex hangups? Or maybe YOU'RE the one with the hangup? Discuss... __________________ *Promote Wildmatch, ImLive, Sexier.com, and more!!* ALWAYS THE HIGHEST PAYOUTS: Big Bux/ImLive SIGNUP ON NOW!!! Put some PUSSYCA$H in your pocket. ICQ me at: 31024634